EARTHBOUND SPIRITS    by Denise Lescano

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“Earthbound Spirits” are spirits that may be seen or felt, and are still residing on the physical plane.

They are a complicated subject.  

A “haunting” - as defined by Webster’s; ‘reoccurring visits from a ghost or spirit’. 

These are not usually the spirits that I am communicating with in a Reading with your loved ones, the majority of spirits I communicate with in a reading have already crossed over.  In understanding earthbound spirits, it helps to remember that spirits who inhabit earthbound locations are basically “unstable people” who have left their physical body and are now in “spirit” form.  In my experience, these spirits are never “evil”, but more than likely are confused  and existing in a state of mental, emotional and/or spiritual imbalance, and as was usually the case, also while they were here in their physical life.  In my extensive experience as a professional Medium working with families who have lost loved ones by murder, suicide, domestic violence and accidental overdoses, I have encountered a lot of unstable and distraught spirits. 

Many of these “earthbound” spirits are existing in a state of fear and misunderstanding. 

They can be afraid to cross over in to the spirit realms for fear of judgment or that they will go to “hell” especially, if they have taken actions in their physical life that resulted in hurting others or even suicide, for example.  Many of these spirits have left unfinished business with the living who they are often times desperate to communicate with and get through too.  In their sometimes desperate attempts to connect with us, they may be mistakenly perceived as malevolent but in my experience have no ill will or intention to scare us.

 Let me be clear, that seeing a loved one around you does not necessarily mean that they are earthbound.  A loved one, who has crossed over in to the spirit realm, can “visit” us at any time.  The majority of spirits that I communicate with in a “Reading” have already crossed over in to the spirit realms. 

I would estimate a very small amount, of maybe 3%, are actually in an earthbound state, which many times is only temporary. 

Some spirits will remain earthbound for a short period of time after leaving the body, before crossing over to the spirit realms.  Some spirits will cross over immediately after leaving the physical body. 

There are also many places, widely known to be “haunted” which are frequented by rather friendly and harmless spirits, as well.

 When people speak of a “Haunting”, they are most commonly referring to malevolent spirits of a very low vibrational energy and spiritual awareness. 

These spirit experiences are many times random in the fact that the spirits have no personal connection to the people that they are “haunting”. These types of spirits may have a distinctly dark, negative or ominous “feeling” when they are around.  **It is important to know that these types of spirit experiences are very rare and not as common as we or Hollywood would like to believe. 

Again, I must mention that these spirits are usually 'mistaken' to be dark or evil, but are really just existing in a very low level of spiritual awareness or are seriously unbalanced.  Many psychics who are not experienced in dealing with spirits on these lower energy/spiritual levels, may often times also mistake them, for being bad or evil...which is simply not true. With that being said, when an unstable spirit, or sometimes a group of spirits, chooses to stay earthbound, they may “attach” to a family, a person or a place; such as a house.  When a spirit attaches to a person or a family for example; they may attempt to continue a “shell” of an earthly existence by drawing on the energy of the family in a particular house. 

Some spirits if particularly manipulative and controlling may take things even further and try to experience physical life again “through” a person and even influence a person. 

Consider the fact that, for example, when a murderer or a child molester dies physically, they are not necessarily locked away in “the gates of hell” so to speak.  These are exactly the types of spirits that some times will hang around the earth plane and “haunt” people and places. They were predators, manipulative and controlling in physical life, and that does not necessarily change when they move on into spirit form.   These types of spirits are attracted to and prey on the weak of heart and mind.  These spirits are often attracted to people on the physical plane who may be struggling with mental illness or addiction; who have suffered abuse or trauma; people who are particularly “fearful” of them because of religious beliefs; and sometimes even children due to their openness, vulnerability and innocence.  They may also be attracted to regular people who are of a lower spiritual awareness and vibrational energy that linger in, or hold onto, feelings and thoughts of a negative nature (and lower vibration) such as; anger, jealousy, revenge, greed, depression etc.

*In some cases, although much more rare, a haunting may have an energy “presence” which may have never lived an earthly existence.  That is a whole other subject, of which I will not go into here. 

 The vast majority of cases of spirits inhabiting a place, like a “haunted house” are harmless.  However,  It is important to keep in mind that, whether a spirit that chooses to stay on the earth plane, is harmless or not, it is not a good idea for them to stay here for many reasons.  It is ultimately better for them and in their best interest to cross over into the spirit realms.  

It is also not a good idea to have earthbound spirit energy hanging around a house or hanging around a particular person for a long period of time.  They will eventually drain the energy of the people they are hanging around.  It is also possible for them to affect the moods of the people they are hanging around by impressing feelings of fear, sadness and depression etc onto them.  If you feel that you have a spirit hanging around you or your home, try sending them love, healing, light and, if needed, forgiveness.  They feel and hear your prayers and loving thoughts...send lots their way to help them understand that it is ok and time for them to move on.  They also feel and hear your negative thoughts, of anger for example...so it is important to offer them forgiveness and to "let them go" so they feel it is ok for them to move on.  It is not healthy for a person or a spirit to hold on for too long, it is important for both sides to let go. 

Encourage them to move on and "cross over", speak to them.  They can hear you, you do not need me to speak to them. 

 It is also important to know that, the majority of people who pass on to spirit form, will find their way over to the spirit realms just fine on their own. 

However, occasionally a few will need some help.  I have been very successful in helping unstable or distraught spirits who are still here on the earth plane to cross over to the spirit plane.  With help from my own spirit guides, helpers and loved ones on the spirit side of life, I am usually able to convince them to move on to a better place.  Most of these spirits are confused, sad, and some times even angry, or feel that they are not yet “ready” to move on for one reason or another.

 I do offer this as a service, as well.  If you feel you are dealing with an earthbound spirit or “haunting” and need some help, I may come to your

home and work to convince the spirit inhabitants to move on, with help from my guides on the spirit side.  It is also possible, that in some cases, I can also do this with your help by telephone. 

 As a Medium, I will communicate with the spirit or spirits, find out who they are, why they are there, and help them to understand why they need to move on and how to move on.  I do this much in the same way as a counselor might work with an emotionally unstable patient. I do not do this alone, and enlist the help of many spirits from the highest levels of the spirit realms to come through and help these confused souls move on to where they are supposed to go.  

 Contrary to popular belief, this work has to do with helping, healing and counseling those in spirit and nothing to do with “casting them out”“banishing” or “exorcising” them. 

My greatest strengths in working with these spirits is humility, respect and compassion for them...I work to help them with understanding and healing much as I do with my “people” clients. 

The most difficult and darker spirits who are on a very low level of spiritual awareness, are usually handled by my co-workers on the spirit side.  As I said, I never work alone…I am always working with “my co-workers on the spirit side of life.” 

 Please feel free to email me, if you have questions or are unsure if you are dealing with an earthbound spirit or a haunting.  *Please do not email to ask me “how to do this work or how to get rid of a spirit”. It is a very complicated subject and each case is totally unique. There is no simple answer.  Just like a trained professional counselor would not attempt to tell you how to counsel an unstable person, neither can I nor would I tell you how to counsel a spirit.  I am highly trained and extensively experienced in this work and dealing with spirits. I would not suggest that anyone should take this type of work on without really knowing what they are doing.  The spirit realm has a whole list of natural laws that govern it that are very different than the way things work here in the physical plane.  It is important to have a healthy respect for that fact, especially when working with unstable or disturbed spirits.

(For further insights, please visit my EARTHBOUND section- rob)